"When the fear in your mind is overwhelming,
it means you've stopped listening to the dreams
in your heart, and you can't move forward."
Hi, I'm Nick, and I can't wait to help you
conquor the fears that are holding you back
from discovering your inner legend.
I was bullied for most of my adolescence. By the time I finished school in South Africa my spirit had been crushed, my confidence, stolen and the real me was deep in hiding. This was further amplified after being hijacked and kidnapped in my twenties. Once again it felt as if my power had been taken away through circumstances out of my control.
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The 'loss of power' created a festering fear inside me; of failure, never being good enough or strong enough. And so I became focused on proving the world, and everyone in it, wrong - I could and would succeed. At all costs.
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This fear-fuelled motivation drove me to complete a 6-year master’s degree, and start and run multiple successful chiropractic practices in no time. But it wasn’t enough.
​So, I worked harder for longer at the expense of my friendships.
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Then came my two beautiful children - my everything. And suddenly my fear-fuelled motivation was in overdrive like never before. “How could I ever let these two incredible humans down? They can never see their daddy as a ‘failure’.”
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So I worked harder for longer at the expense of my family.
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Then a serious health scare in 2020 changed everything. Living with the constant stress and overwhelm for so long was too much for my body to bear. The festering fear had bubbled over and my health was now paying the price.
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This was a pivotal moment in my life, the blunt realisation that outward perceived success would never actually bring me inner authentic fulfilment. I had been wrong all along.
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I realised I was my only competition. I had to take back control of my life and my happiness and figure out what was most important to me. And I understood that I was the only person who could do that.
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So, I went on a spiritual journey. I read every personal development book I could get my hands on, formalised my coaching certification, attended as many seminars and workshops that I could and hired a coach for myself. I cold-water immersed, I meditated, I journaled and manifested until I got to the other side of my fear and I found my personal legend.
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Then I looked back on my journey and built the road with the tools I believe were most effective, to help you do the same. I look forward to walking that road with you.
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Nick
My Story
I BELIEVE
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It's never too late to change. Our fears and limiting beliefs hold us back from living the lives we truly want. All it takes is some hard-earned self awareness, and one small step to get you on your way.
DAILY RITUALS:
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Meditation and breathwork, daily gratitude, exercising my legs and lungs on the mountain bike, helping my tribe with their physical and mental hurdles, morning cuddles with the kiddies and constantly longing to be back in Africa on safari.
I'M NOT ABOUT:
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Avoiding hard truths that help me grow
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Superficial relationships,
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Not taking ownership for my actions
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Extended pity parties (only short ones)
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Stopping the music from taking control of my body when the beat drops
YOU CAN FIND ME:
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Changing peoples lives, having sundowners on safari, cooking, reading, still learning to play the guitar after 10 years, and having epic adventures with my gorgeous wife and beautiful children.
“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”
-Nelson Mandela